As we all know, social media kind of sucks right now. Some of them actually have logarithms that feed negativity and conflict. I want to create some kind of safe alternative. I’m playing with a variety of ideas. At first, I just liked the idea of a peer support website. Instead of talking to a therapist, you can talk to someone who’s available right away. But there would need to be certain safeguards and guidelines in place that are enforced somehow. There’s an app called Therapeer which I love and is sort of like a drop-in app to have a deep 1-hour conversation about a topic that you explain before the person joins your room.
I’ve also thought about an AI bot that assists you with directing the conversation in a way that is skillful and allows people to open up slowly and trust slowly. Which led me to think that perhaps I want to offer an app that helps people simply make conversation. Because I’ve noticed that so many people don’t seem to have skills to engage in small talk in a way that is actually fun and engaging and can lead to something deeper.
So far I think the main aspects that I want this app/site offer that nothing else offers right now is the combination of these things :
A structured, safe, supervised space that is also timed, and Anonymous. You just have 1 hour to express and support, and you can remain anonymous.
24/7 availability of people to talk to. You get to talk when you are feeling in the mood, not at an appointment time. And the people who are volunteering actually want to be there and listen. They aren’t being forced either.
Some system that matches appropriate conversation partners. For example, people who have had similar experiences such as narcissistic abuse. But more importantly, people who have similar ways of interacting, such as some people who want to have light conversation before they start talking deep, and vice versa.
To reduce pressure on volunteers, there would be several volunteers assigned to one person who is seeking support. That way, volunteers would avoid burnout or feeling like they can’t help.
I realize this is more of a therapy app than a social media app, but I do sort of want to create a whole culture around skillful communication. That’s why the AI bot that directs the conversation And perhaps even monitors the conversation would be essential. I think maybe before volunteering people would have to take some kind of training.
I’ve worked at peer support hotlines, including suicide hotlines and I’ve noticed some of the problems at those places which I think this app could also solve. Solve. There’s also a few websites that offer this kind of service, like seven cups. But I’ve used those websites and in my opinion they can become toxic and there’s not enough safeguards to make sure that the person seeking help is being addressed in the most appropriate language.
I have an expertise in offering peer support. It’s a combination of intuition, experience, and just knowing what kinds of words to use. And, to be honest, the most important thing is knowing when not to talk.I’m thinking perhaps I could use my templates of many, many conversations with people to create an AI bot that can be of assistance or can train. I don’t want to take away the human element. I want people to be able to choose if they use the advice from the AI bot or not, but I do also want the AI bot to have the right to veto certain types of responses or responses that are too fast even…
I’m not really sure anyone will understand what I’m saying. I just deepen my soul understand how to talk to people, and I want to spread this throughout the world because I’ve seen so many therapists and people who work in social work who don’t know how to keep space.. In fact, they are some of the worst. And I think more and more nowadays. What we need is live communication and live conversation at exactly the moment when we need it. To be truly present with each other. And also feel safe.
Please share with me your thoughts. And also, would you use such a website? Website? What qualities would you like the website to have? What problems do you foresee?
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